This way you can go about your night without worrying what your mouth might taste like later. Plus, when you're talking close, and she catches a whiff of mint — instead of beer breath — she'll definitely want to kiss you. And when a guy suddenly smells fresh after a night out, you usually know that he's set on leaning in for that kiss. Always keep one of these in your pocket for later, because it might end up being just as important to your night as a condom.
Women usually keep a hair tie around their wrist or in their purse. However, they manage to disappear in situations when you need them the most. Hair ties seem to be the most elusive when you're getting ready to give a blowjob. Now I know that carrying one might not seem like your responsibility unless you're the kind of dude who's rocking a man bun.
In that case you have a perfect excuse as to why you have one. I wouldn't recommend wearing one around your wrist unless you have long flowing hair because having a hair tie around your wrist can be just as repelling as a wedding ring.
Girls might think that your hair tie belongs to a girlfriend and dodge you as if you were married. So keep the hair tie in your pocket. And if she asks why say that you keep on in case you get lucky. If saying that makes you feel too cocky, then say it belongs to a platonic female friend, and you just so happened to have it on you. I don't think that a girl should be too concerned as to why you have one because it's not that uncommon for a guy to come across a hair tie in the wild.
In some fraternities, they keep hair ties on them in the hopes that they get laid or in case one of their brothers get lucky. If they ask, say that you picked up the habit in college! Okay, this should be really obvious.
Obviously try to keep a condom on you if you're trying to get laid… duh. But make sure to keep a few things in mind regarding condoms, like that they actually do expire.
Yes, make sure you're paying attention to the expiration date on your trusty wallet condom. If it's past the date, throw it out and swap it for a new one. Speaking of wallet condoms… that's actually not the best place to put them. Your body heat and the friction from it being kept amongst credit cards will wear the condom down.
Try to keep the condom in a jacket pocket but not the same pocket as your keys! If it looks worn down or like it could have been punctured, toss it.
The best place for condoms is in cool dark places. So if you don't feel like carrying them, make sure to keep them bedside at the very least. Though it's always good to have one on you if you're going out, use your judgment. If it looks old and tossed-around, it's probably not going to protect you from anything.
Lovability's condoms are probably my absolute favorite because they're packaged in a durable container so less chance of tearing , they don't smell like Autozone, and they're packaged right-side-up which is great for trembling hands. This next item might not seem as obvious as the others. However, it's very important. I'm a huge proponent of lube.
And while lube might not be as important as condoms when it comes to safety, lube is almost vital when it comes to the actual deed. When you're doin' the do after a night out, you might have noticed that while it might be harder for you to perform it's also harder to just get it in to begin with.
Whiskey dick is a catchy phrase, but sometimes women suffer from — for lack of a better phrase — whiskey vagina. Everyone knows that when you drink you get dehydrated, but what everyone might not know is that dehydration directly effects how wet a girl can get.
So if you're planning on drinking pre-hookup, it might be a good idea to keep some lube on you. You can buy little one use packets that you can easily slip in your front pocket. Not your back pocket; that could be a disaster. If you plan on going back to yours, make sure to keep a bottle of lube in your bedside table along with all your condoms. And make sure you buy plain ol' lube. Don't buy anything that advertising a tingling sensation or that's flavored.
Because "tingling" lube usually just straight up burns and flavored lube usually has glucose in it which makes it unsafe for putting it inside a vagina. When you're trying to get laid on any given night, you have to try. Very seldom is a girl going to just fall into your lap and be willing to go home with you.
So, you need to employ a few strategies when hunting for potential hookup prospects. As a dude, you're usually expected to be on the offensive when it comes to asking to hang out or hookup. Here are a few ways to do that: When it comes to texting, no one ever wants to be the one texting first.
Especially if you've been left on read or you were the last one to respond to a dying conversation. It takes some balls, but boy can it be worth it. If there's a girl in your phone who you've been flirting with or have hooked up in the past shoot her a text and hope for the best. Send something subtly flirty and be direct with what you want. But don't be too direct; no girl wants to get a text that says something like, "hey, we should have sex". So be direct without being too candid, something like "Hey!
What are you up to tonight? What are your plans for this weekend? I'd love to see you" gives off a flirty vibe without being too overtly sexual. Throw in a winky emoji or a smiley face for good measure. I know that texting first, especially double texting, can be a point of anxiety for most but if you want to get anywhere with a girl you're going to have to be okay with taking a risk. If you're nervous about what she might say send the text and then walk away from your phone.
This way you won't feel tempted to hover over your phone in anticipation. Though throwing your phone across your room will keep you from texting other potential hookups.
So cast your net wide and send a couple flirty text to try to make plans, but instead of tossing your phone into an abyss put some girls you're particularly nervous about on do not disturb. You'll be free to text other girls or scroll down Twitter without feeling too anxious about responses rolling in. Tinder, and other dating apps alike, are arguably the most reliable ways to find a hookup. Even if girls are looking for a longterm partner on a dating app, they're usually okay with fooling around in the process.
With that being said, swipe right! Log on to your favorite dating up, spruce up your profile a little bit, and go for it! Swipe right on a ton of girls. Swipe right on any girl that you would be remotely interested in sleeping with because with dating apps you have to cast your net extremely wide.
Because let's be honest, you're not going to message have the girls and they're probably not going to message first.
It's harder to message first when you don't know the person. They're going to feel less obligated to reply since they don't know you. It's hard to establish that connection with a bad pickup line and a cheesy gif. Message a large number of your matches and see if anything sparks! Set a time to meet up at a bar or a party and see if anything catches fire in real life! Do you know a girl, but not well enough to have her number?
Do you and a girl habitually like each other's tweets, but never really talk? Maybe it's time to actually talk to your WCW. There is no harm in sliding into a girl's DMs. It's less nerve-wracking then messaging a girl you already know pretty well, and you're more likely to get a response than you are by hitting on Tinder girls. Like one of her tweets or grams and then follow it up with a compliment in her DMs. Don't be afraid to be a little more flirty than you usually would be; girls get plenty of guys sliding into their DMs, you're going to definitely need to stick out from the pack if you want a response.
If she responds, take that as a good sign and try to keep the conversation going. If you can manage to keep a conversation going in her DMs, then try to transition the conversation from online to in person by asking her if she has plans or if you could buy her a drink sometime.
Now that you have initiated contact with a potential hookup, it's time to get your flirt on. If you want to get laid, you need to cultivate that connection with sincere compliments, well-timed jokes, and occasional subtly sexy innuendos. A lot of guys are flirtatiously inept. However, a general rule of thumb is that if you're making her sincerely laugh, then you're probably doing a good job.
These steps that you need to somewhat nail if you want to nail her. Flirting isn't strictly limited to what you say and the vibes you give out. Flirting is highly physical as well. Your body language says just as much about what you want as your words do. Make sure that when you're talking with your girl that you keep your body language open and inviting.
If you're sitting down, point you knees and feet at her. If you're standing make sure to stand across from her or pivot your body toward her when talking in a group. Don't cross your arms or put something physical — like a backpack or briefcase — between the two of you; these are examples of closed body language and may give the impression that you're not into her. Another thing you should do to make sure you're giving her all the right vibes is to touch her.
And no I don't mean inappropriately hopefully that'll come later. When you're hanging out — whether you be at a bar or in private — try to make 3 points of contact. A few examples include reaching out to brush her hair away from her face, touching her hand, touching her shoulder or looping your arm with hers while walking. These points of contact should be affectionate without being overtly sexual, and purposeful.
Accidentally brushing her hand with yours does not count. I'm a believer that for some alcohol is certainly liquid courage. But I'm also an active believer that for most too much alcohol is fuel for stupid decisions. That being said, I'm not totally against drinking when trying to hookup. Sometimes a beer or two, or three is what you need to build the courage to talk to that girl at the bar or finally ask her if she wants to "get out of here".
I am however against sloppy drunk hookups, especially when you're hooking up with someone for the first time. Odds are you probably don't know them very well, or if you do, you don't know them sexually at all. Knowing and trusting someone even if it's only a little bit is important even when you're looking for a fling. So stick to wine or beer if you can't trust yourself to go overboard on the liquor.
Make sure you order a glass of water in between drinks and actually drink it. Don't worry about looking like a square when watching how much you drink; you'll look mature, cool, and collected. The last thing you want to do is have one-too-many and completely ruin your chances with a girl. Next to humor, confidence is paramount when it comes to closing. If you don't think you're capable of closing, you're probably not going to close.
Feeling confident is something everyone has to work on. It's a total fake-it-till-you-make it scenario. Even if you're insecure, you need to put on a front that you're somewhat confident. This is why grooming is so important in the hooking up equation; because even if you don't feel like the most confident man in the room, dressing well will help you get there. Plus, no well-groomed guy is going to look like they lack in self-esteem.
However, there is a huge difference between acting confident and cocky. For some, it's hard to toe that line.
So when you're speaking, have a filter. Make sure that nothing coming out of your mouth sounds douchey and self-obsessed.
This is why it's important for a lot of guys to watch how much they're drinking; for a good amount of guys they become more cocky with each drink. Believe me; I understand that you want to get laid. I understand that if given the option, you'd probably want to get laid right here and right now. I understand how you might feel a sense of urgency, especially if you're in the midst of a particularly lengthy dry spell.
And sex is fun. But no what's not fun? Feeling like you're getting pressured into sex. So… don't get pushy. It's not cute, and it will do nothing to get you laid. When it comes to flirting — especially when it comes to humor — it's very important to match her tone. Let's say you have a very vulgar sense of humor and she isn't nearly as filthy as you. You're going to want to tone it down a little bit until your remarks clearly don't cause discomfort.
If you clearly make her uncomfortable with any of your jokes dirty, political, or otherwise apologize and change the topic. The same goes for being forward. You don't want to be overtly sexual with your comments and compliments if she's clearly not finding it flattering. There are ways to be forward without being explicit. That being said, there are girls who are sexual as fuck when it comes to flirting.
If you find one of those girls, congrats. If they're willing to be outright freaky in the streets, she's probably just as freaky in the sheets. Once things start getting hot and heavy, it might be difficult to figure out what to do next or how to far to go. Hooking up is a broad term. Hooking up could mean anything from getting to second base to doing anal… it just depends on your definition of the word which is important when it comes to the actual act of hooking up.
Since people have different definitions of the word and have different ideas of how far they're willing to go based on the situation, hooking up is a total gray area. So, when you're hooking up you're going to have to make a lot of sense of all the gray; you're going to have to figure out what's black and what's white. The obvious solution to this is to communicate.
Don't be shy about asking what she wants from you or how far she's willing to go. You might feel awkward about outright asking if she wants to have sex, but she'll be turned on by the fact that you actually asked. You should be golden so long as you're keeping everything safe and consensual as well as sexy, but here are a few Do's and Don'ts when it comes to dickin' her down. Girls come in all shapes and sizes, but this tip is for all my short girls out there. Short girls never have to worry about being too tall for guys, but what they do have to worry about is being too short.
So when you're making out with a shorty, make sure you're taking her height into consideration. While short girls won't mind getting with tall guys because every girl is into the tall, dark, and handsome type , they might regret their decision the next morning when their neck is completely stiff from making out standing up. If you notice that she's craning her neck a little bit, lead her over to a couch or the bed to make your make-out sesh more comfortable.
Remember those gray areas I mentioned? This is one of them. When you're hooking up with someone new, you should be very cautious about getting rough. Yes, most people have engaged in some kind of rough sex according to blank about blank percent , but for some people, it is not their cup of tea. Before you go full on Fifty-Shades, test the waters.
And by test the waters I mean barely dip your toe at first. Lightly scratch her back, barely pull her hair, or when you kiss her hold her by her chin. Don't full on dig your nails in, don't yank her hair back, and don't choke her right off the bat. That's how you scare the shit out of someone who's vanilla as fuck. If you're trying to get freaky, test the waters or straight up ask her. But, speaking for experience, a freaky girl will probably feel more comfortably asking for what she wants.
For some reason, women sometimes find it harder to communicate their needs in bed. So, make sure that when you're hooking up ask what feels good. Usually you can base what's feeling good off of her physical reactions. For instance, if she's moaning or arching her back whatever you're doing probably feels good. If she's not making any noise or pulling away from your motions, then whatever you're doing probably doesn't feel so great.
If you can't figure out where she's at, then ask. Just by saying something like "Does that feel good, babe? If you're attempting anything particularly acrobatic during a first or second hookup, then you're fucking up.
Not only are you probably doing the aforementioned sex position wrong but you're putting future hookup opportunities at risk. Crazy Kama Sutra positions are completely off limits for when you first start hooking up with someone. You should stick to basic positions think missionary and doggy when you start hooking up with someone.
Once you've established some trust, then put your life in their hands by attempting any wild sex positions. While you shouldn't try to twist your body into a pretzel while having sex with someone for the first — or second — time, you shouldn't just stick to missionary. Think about how you can spice up basic or minimally physically demanding positions.
Something as simple as raising her legs over your shoulders during missionary or pulling her upright during doggy to kiss her shows variation. Another pretty basic way to change it up is to throw a pillow under her back in missionary or under her knees in doggy to change the angle at which you're thrusting.
You can also fuck around the house. Don't just keep it on the bed. Bang on the floor. Bang on the couch. Bang in the kitchen. Just make sure your roommates aren't home…. Sex doesn't end when you cum. I'm going to say that again for the people in the back: Contrary to popular belief, the male orgasm does not signify the end of sex.
For the love of god, please don't cum, roll over, and fall asleep. At the very least take a breather before continuing to work your lady over. Her pleasure is just as important as yours. However, if she makes it clear that she's done but hasn't cum, that's okay too. Don't push your partner to cum if she's having a hard time getting there.
The female orgasm can be elusive to most females themselves. So don't make them feel bad if they couldn't get there. And don't feel bad either. Having an orgasm hinges heavily on trust and feeling completely relaxed. Both of those things usually come with hooking up a few times. Please don't leave her there coverd in your cum Get the girl a towel. Better yet, help the girl out. This should go without saying, yet here I am. So you got laid!
Good for you, my dude! Now the key is to not act like a total weirdo now that you've banged this girl. Here are a few key steps to proper post-hookup etiquette: Gauging when you should leave can be difficult. There will be times where you should stay the night and when you shouldn't. What should i do to win this gal? Hi Tripp Reading some of the experiences of men texting women women online has surprised me. How little they understand women. I have just been texting on WeChat.
First I was on Facebook and my online girlfriend said to me I am having a shower. Please go on WeChat I have something to show you. We then began Sexual texting. After the texting she said you do know you have made me orgasm with your texting.
This time it was my girlfriend that decided to become very sexual via text. Texting now I think as become the quickest way to have sex with a Girlfriend. Thanks for sharing your experience. Hi Tripp My age is 61 I am a teacher of mainly adult women.
My Girlfriends are very much younger than me. My girlfriends are of varied nationalities. Chinese,Filipino, Ukrainian, British, Dutch. The hardest by a distance are traditional Chinese ladies.
With Chinese woman of this type when they tell you they miss you very much. It means they love you and want to live with you.
You will need many months of texting. Tell them stories about your past romantic experiences. But do not become overtly sexual with them. Only text like this after a period of time. Leave it in their minds what comes after, Imagining being with you is enough. The texting style depends on your rapport with this woman. My one advice first make them jealous most men have options.
Do the push pull technique. Give them time to miss your conversations. For all women show interest in their lives. Most men are stupid when texting a woman for the first time. Let them chase you. Many times they reach out to you. In the world there are many lonely Beautiful women who are great inside and out. Watch out for scammers. But they are very easy to spot. Be a Alpha Male who has a life and many options. Make them to want to be part of your life. Attached picture of Chinese Girlfriend.
He shows no fear of rejection. My experience comes from teaching them over a long period of time. Be aware by communicating with a woman online.
They can fall in love with you. A good subject to discuss with them is Astrology. I am a Virgo male. The time of the month effects her. Study Female behavior on the internet. Tell them about your romantic adventures. All you are doing is telling them about your life experience. Your stories can be as sexual as your experience. Do not hide that you are a man with experience of women. I have actually told them that I am going on a date with a another woman.
Many women are jealous of other women. A real man has choices. He is selective who he wants to be with. Be a Alpha male. Watch James Bond films. Would he fuck a fat woman. Does he like intelligent smart women yes.
Real men are relaxed. Not afraid to be sexual with a woman at the right time. Knows when a woman is interested in him. I was on a flight back to England a few months ago. In the seats in front of me a woman turned to man and asked do you speak English. He was not able to answer. The seats were in a row of three, He sat where I was sitting where I was before. I chatted with this lady during the whole flight. I was wearing a dark blue suit.
Other women watched what I did and knew I was a Alpha male. Hope this information was informative. Thanks for sharing your story with us. Yo Tripp, you da man! So I have been talking to this girl that lives like an hour away from me for maybe 5 weeks or so, and have hung out yep, overnight on my side of town twice, and had a pretty good time.
She mentioned shortly thereafter the last encounter about 2 weeks ago that she wants to hang out again, on her side of town. She damn near vanished, I called her once one day, texted her twice total each one on separate days with a day in between , and the last message a few days ago was a simple pic mail of the 2 of us in our last encounter….. So for you, I would say send one more text telling her your thoughts and that you would like to know what hers are.
This is a very fair question to ask because you just want to know. What you do after that is up to. Thanks for the reply and input Tripp. How to text a girl and make her like me. I made up my mind to create a new account and say sorry to her and she was okay with that. What should i do, thanks mate. Btw do you have whatsapp? Life is short and time is limited. Anyways, we have so many things in common, right from love for writing to bad past experiences, and after few days of conversations with her, i think, she is quite an interesting person and i would really like to ask her out.
The major problem is, i am out for my masters, and i would have very few chances to visit her. Her reaction will give you your answer to that question. Hope that helps and good luck. The first time we got into a disagreement we needed up having sex. Than out of no where she started being short and distance.
Maybe she felt I was getting feelings for her. So I gave it three days and texted her and she texted back and after I texted her after she never responded.. Any tip would help. Thank you in advance. Stop confusing yourself by getting caught up in those games.
Wait for her to text you. If not, then it might be time to take a break. Know what you want and stay focused. Hey thank yu for the information.. One with a picture of her self and than she wrote me.. I responded back the next day , very short. Than we talked for a little I set up a time to hangout when I was free next week , and she said just let her know. Should I keep giving her space and be short with her?
And should I reach out to her when I get back to set up seeing her? I have mate that girl after yr. How do I start chatting with her.. And make her interested in me for chatting. Please refer to those for things like that. Hey, I have been texting a girl from two months n we met twice. I talked to her about marriage n getting in to a serious relationship. I think it was too early for me to do that n it made her feel as m desperate to b with her.
Now she talks to me but make excuses for meeting up. She said she will stick around Mr n just trying to figure out the best for best for us. With this one, you can try taking a break and waiting for her to come around and trying again, but the most important thing is to learn from your mistake and try not to make it again.
In general, yes texting a girl morning, noon and night is too much. In fact, most of the time when a girl gets intimate with a guy quickly, she likes the reassurance of more communication. So I need some help how to start a text conversation with her.
Thanks for the question. I made an entire video series on starting text conversations with girls. Go to my Youtube channel and go to playlists. I am a huge fan. There is this girl that Iike. I have started texting with her but I have no idea weather she likes me or not. Is there anyway I can find out without her knowing that im tryna find out. The best way to do it subtly is to flirt. The way to check if she likes you after flirting with her is by seeing if that changes the way that she interacts with you in anyway.
Ask her to do something with you. If she says yes, then she likes you. Let me know how it goes. I liked a girl one year younger than me. Accidentally, she is my student now and getting attached with student is not a good idea. She will be my student for six more months.
A teacher is supposed to be a friend, mentor and confidant to their students. Not wondering how to date them. But for now know your role and slow your roll.
I am concerned about my role and I can assure that I do possess all qualities of your expectation. In spite of getting judgmental towards me, I confess that I really had feelings for her. Hey is there any tips on how to gain attraction with your ex fiance, she fell out of love with me. We was together for 9 months but is saying she wants to be single and independent.
This should give you a lot of ideas for getting her back. Now l wanna show her that l love,how can l do that tripp? It has a bunch of videos that will teach you how to text her right. Feel free to check it out. Try writing it down. We used to talk on msg but when she calls me or ask me to call, I became completely blank over call… How to overcome this issue?
I didnt know what im doing , we just suddenly met at school building waiting for the rain and talk a bit whenever i said a words and she will laugh.
But everytime i message this girl , she will replied me late like minutes every of my message. So do the girl likes me? Been with a girl for 5 months, texting regularly. We are already at the point of seeing each other. What you need to focus on now are your in person interactions with her.
Hey Tripp, I took your advice on how to start the conversation with the girl and we had some small talk but, whenever I asked her out e.
How can I start the conversation and how long should i wait to ask her again? I randomly approached a girl on a street yesterday and we spoke for 5 mins.
I went back home and ended up chatting with her on facebook for 5 hours straight. She started talking about menstrual cycles and the next thing she said was: Then she told me that she has a boyfriend and the type of husband she wants. And even after that, I said I wanted to kiss her. Today she was really unresponsive and cold on facebook. Whenever she tried to test me, I just said she was adorable! Great job on meeting a new girl and chatting to her on Facebook.
She never seems to respond to my texts that often any advice shes 13, 7th grade when I smile at her she blushes. I got her hooked on me once, but it dwindled down from there. What can I text her to turn her on so that we can hook up? So I met this girl at a music festival. Sometimes she never answers.
How should I proceed?? When you have a scarcity mindset, your communication will be different from that which builds attraction and keeps her interested.
I need some basic tips that how to start up a conversation.. Give it a listen to get the answers. This video explains how to start a text conversation wtih a girl. Bobby Rio and Rob Judge talk about the best first texts to send https: I made so many mistakes that I lost count after 3 paragraphs. Oh and I forgot to mention that we have known each other pretty well for 15 years that is how old I am. Tripp do you always have to text a girl 1st every time wheb you want to go out on a date with her.
What if I am really interested in dating, and especially in some girls in particular, but my school work never makes it possible for me to make dating a part of my life? I have so much work to do in college. I have also never been very interested in drinking so my lifestyle is very different from my classmates. What advice do you have on this kind of a situation? If you want to have a dating life, then cut down on school and work and create one for yourself.
You have all the time to do whatever you want. Your time is yours to with as you wish. Its really amazing… loved reading this because it feels very awkward at first time to chat with a girl and ask for meet and date. Some apps seems to be helpful in that. I used to talk with a girl on fb then we ignore each other for days without texting or phone calls.. I never sent any massege for days.
Hi Tripp Online communication is a skill that needs to be learnt. Go onto the online dating sites. Produce a good profile with pictures. Waiting for women to begin communication is often effective. Many on the dating sites are scammers. But also the real women often communicate first.
The women online are used to many men who are totally unable to communicate with them correctly. Your advice is needed I am sure you can help these men. Just because the woman has contacted you first it does not mean you can be sexual or send her dick pictures before you have even a good rapport. These are the experiences of my girlfriends on the Dating sites.
When she has selected you as her boyfriend she will remove herself from the dating sites but she will also expect you to stop being on the dating sites. Remember women will test you. They will know if you are cheating on them. On the dating sites you will notice that she is no longer on any of them. WeChat with them if they are living in China as they have no facebook in China. It is easy to turn a woman on and even help her to orgasm. We are more than just texting friends.
At the moment we communicate on WeChat together when we both have time available. This connection has been going on together for over a year. Until now we have not been able to meet. Which we both want very much. Do you have any experience of having a relationship with a Chinese woman? I had a profile on the CLM dating website. I have attached a picture of my girlfriend. Keep getting to know her.
Is she visiting you now? She will be arriving in August. I Have been in communication before with other Chinese ladies. But I did not feel any real connection with them.
I agree with your suggestion that when we meet to take small steps only. Share fish n chips in the park. Do all the the activities at the beginning of a relationship. Let the feelings grow between each other. She considers me a Gentleman that would not force her to do anything she did not want to do. If our Romance blossoms I will stay with her in Beijing China. Sex should come after love. I will tell you later how the time together went.
Many western men want to date Asian women for many reasons. Often leaving many women in pain because I did not feel the way they did. I have self limited myself now to only two women. I do not go on dating web sites now. I refuse any contact with any other women. In the end It is my choice in deciding who I wish to have a relationship with. As I will be in the company of my Chinese girlfriend first.
She is the first option. Hi Tripp From my experience the women sometimes seem to fall in love with me online. For me to fall in love I need to be with the woman face to face. I am interested in your opinion on people thinking they are in love with a person online? I wonder if other men have had this experience of online dating? I remember one woman I was on Skype with for two hours. I had a message from this lady later. I am sorry but I not only like you, I am in love with you.
Do you believe in love at first sight? They may have many friends but they usually sleep alone. Having a relationship is what they want. In other words, we are actually poor. So I wanted to ask if I should just forget about dating and girls completely until Im older and get a job and hopefully do well for myself. This is something that I spend alot of time thinking about.
Hi Ndumiso I would remove the pressure of asking girls for a date. Just begin communication in your class or school with any girl.
Fear of rejection is very bad when you are young. Are you into sports or do you have other interests. If you would like to learn to dance. Go to dance school. During the dancing you will get used to being in the company of girls. Stop trying to date a girl just learn to communicate with them. Everything will change if you get over this barrier. If you do not you will continue with little understanding of how to communicate with a woman when you are a adult. Best wishes for future Success.
For now, enjoy your time as a young person with few responsibilities, do your best in school, and have fun with your friends.
Hey Trip, Good job, i like your tips. Any opening lines you recommend? Im actually pretty good in picking up girls in real life but i kinda suck in texting. Ive watched your videos they are good but not helping in this situation. Yes, exactly what you just said. Tell them that they have no info about them and their pictures are plain and that you have nothing to work with. I am curious what it will be like going out with a lady from a different culture.
Many questions will be answered, I suppose it depends on what type of women you are dating, I will only be able to write what it is like dating this one woman. Good luck to you both. What should i do? Hi Tobi My opinion. Be more entertaining than the other guys. Leave her wanting more from you. Do not reply quickly. You have a life. Women should want to be part of your life. If she does not realize you are the Alpha male. Then after a period of time drop her.
Read Tripps advice on Texting. Do not use a lower case I. Remember you are important. I think she showed some interest in me, since she asked a lot of questions about myself, and she seemed a little bit nervous.
So, I got her number from a girlfriend of hers. Do you think would be awkward if I asked her out? So I would wait until you see her again and ask for it. Hey tripp, hanks bro for making me confident in approaching her. I used to love her for last 9 years and finally we met in a shop where i talked to her and ot her no. In front of mother. But the thing is that is shy.. Even during the talk, she was like calm only replying little … yes giggling but didnt show that much intrest.
But she gave her watsapp no. I have waiting of this girl for sooooo long time and thats y dont wana ruin my chance. I dont know whether she has a boyfrnd or not. And if she is single, then start with what you have in common with her and go from there. Also, you need to change your mindset from scarcity to abundance and stop putting all your eggs in one basket and acting as if this girl is the only one in the world.
Hi Tripp I noticed the young men leaving messages for you. They seem to be very innocent young men. To be honest they sound a bit creepy.
Are they successful in life. If you are it is easy. Men like this talk to many women. The guys are in there are smart, mature and funny. I think you will enjoy their company much better than the average commenter. Order it, become a member and join us.
Hi Tripp I have noticed that my girlfriend keeps testing me. Maybe it is just a female way of finding out if he is the man he seems to be. Can you provide to men how to pass these tests. I am passing them but I expect the tests will get harder. Interestingly these tests are coming from my mainland Chinese girlfriend. But I am sure many men do not understand what their girlfriend is doing. When you have passed the tests their feelings get stronger. They then can open up to you.
Henry, you need to work on yourself first and develop more skills for getting better with girls. Thnx very great advices I was on a date with her and then every one went home how long should i wait to text her now and what i should text her at first the deal was to take her out now the deal is to make her yours thank you.
But what about the idea of doing my own thing and not being available to get out of the friend zone. Not sure which approach to take. Take the approach that you think will work for now. Let that go and try something.
Long distance is not a problem these days. Hey Tripp, been following your stuff as of late and I must admit its pretty good stuff! Both made intentions clear as to what we wanted, we texted every day and met up several times for lunch, hooked up every time, constant flirting that lead to nude pics and sexting. Until one day she mentioned she was talking to the X. Looking back at it now I fucked up.
That never happened and she ended up cancelling which I got angry over, and made it known to her another mistake. Or just use the method you recommend above? I have friends who are friends but i never got to meet her personally. She has literally thousands of pursuers i believe. How do i start texting her over insta and get her number and eventually get her to meet me. How soon should i ask her out?
By commenting on her picture that you know something about, getting to know her better and have a reason for getting it, asking her if she would like to do something with you. All in due time. Be smart about it. I advertised on a website asking for men to contact me if wishing to chat with a beautiful Filipina lady. I provided the ladies E-mail address after a man asked me for information. He has no chance with becoming friends with this lady. Please learn to text well. You will lose out due to your lack of texting Ability.
What do u think how to get the conversation going and how to get her to like me and open up? Your videos and blogs have been helpful! Anyway, I got a question. Me and the girl are not officially dating, yet we have spent time traveling together for total accumulated time of 2 months in these 4 months since we know each other, and yes, we have sex casually.
Now we have to be separated for 4 months until our next mutual occasion because of our different nationalities. We have no other means of communication other than texting and phone call. After 2 weeks of texting she starts to cool down and stop replying. I am thinking about periodical texting and calls but please let me know if you have tips on the best way to do those or if you have any other suggestion. To stay connected with her for these next few months, I would text and call her occasionally as you suggested.
Your quick response is amazing! I have been looking up videos about keeping in touch in long distance relationship, but I found almost nothing!
It would be awesome if you can make video about tips on how to keep the relationship interesting in the long distance relationship! I just now started a girl texting on fb n I want her to make close enough so that she can give her number we can move forward but the question arises that how to chase her on me so that she becomes interested in me??? N I need advice on how to start off the conversation with her n keep it flowing. I have a podcast just for those type of questions.
I have known her for years. First of all, years is way too long to wait and see what will happen with a girl. How do you resort such a situation? Well it sounds like she was never interested so there is nothing to restore it to. Restore it to what? Start over with yourself and with new girls. Give them special treatment for everything in any condition because girls deserve so much respect. She gave you her number, you started texting each other, but then something weird happened… She started taking longer to reply.
So what the hell happened? The best way to get started is to learn… The Foundation: Main points to remember about the C. She wants things to feel natural and effortless. One of the greatest feelings as a man is creating a little magic for her to experience. Sequence with her or any other techniques for that matter. Just let her enjoy how easy it is to connect with you. And by the way, moving on would also be a win for you.
What do you do? How long have you lived here? What are you studying in college? Not texting with enough girls. Girls like it when you step up and lead. Being too eager and too excited. Be cool, hang back, be authentic, and keep the interaction moving forward so you two can actually start dating. Responding right away all the time. Sending sexual texts and pictures sexting.
Believe it or not, girls post screenshots of that stuff on their Facebook and Instagram for all their friends to see. The Internet is written in pen, not pencil. Not caring about spelling. Girls always complain about this. In Summary I hope you enjoyed this post. The same night sex text. Send this to her when you want her to come over to spend time with you and feel good about doing it. Use this when a girl has to cancel plans with you, but it seems like she still wants to see you.
This is an easy way to get her feeling more eager and excited to meet up with you. I love this one. This will make her feel really happy to be dating you she might even brag about your text to her friends.
The friend zone destroyer text. The rapid reply text. The instant date text. Thanks for the help Mac! I have the same problem.. Thanks for the help Tripp. If a gal agrees to go on a date with you, plan accordingly, show up and have fun. Stop texting her and try talking to her. The examples are in the blog post. Hey tripp, I often run out of things to say to girls and dont really know how to end a conversation too well. Talk to her daily and apply what I teach in my videos to build the attraction with her.
Use the phone or Skype. Say hi and go from there. I did but now she has no interest in me. Thanks for the help though. Now just try with a different girl. Are you two dating? Is she your girlfriend? And I never talked with her for sometime … And after a week or two , she poked me on fb. Please help me , tripp …. Hi Tripp ur awesome, thanks can i talk privatly please.
How old are you Max? Stay tuned to the channel! Hey Tripp, I was wondering if you can help me, there this supet awesome girl, I like and she likes me,but like all girls she likes somone els aswell. Hey Tripp, I was wondering if you can help me, there this super awesome girl, I like and she likes me, but like all girls she likes somone els aswell. Me 18 and she is also. Watch my YouTube channel. Thx ok wil do. Ok thx now I have a nother problem. Sounds like a good idea.
Does this work in High School? Not intended for high schoolers. This website is not intended for minors. Can you help me? We are in highschool. Pick up where you left off and try again. When the time is right to ask her out, do it. Not replying is not a good sign. There are more girls out there for you. If sometimes she texts you first, then yes, she is interested in texting with you. What if the girl is always waiting for the guy to text back? Watch my videos, listen to my podcast, and read my blog.
You have a lot to learn. I hope this can get a response asap It would be very helpful. Tripp i need your advice. Patience is a virtue. And in person is better than texting. Thanks for the assist! I like too many girls but im scared to talk them or her. Bro its easy to here but hard to talk any girl plzz tell me how.
I am not scared but really my mind is out when I am near my special girl. What post you talking? Read the title of the post above. She wants to know why you want to know. It would be great if you could advice me on my situation… Cheers. Keep doing what works. I am chatting with a girl, how should i ask her for date.
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